Losing Bachelor's Degree

One more month to go for the marriage. So many questions popping up in my head. Is this the end of 'many' things for a bachelor? Of course I understand life wouldn't be the same after marriage. But still, will it not be even a least bit of how it is now? As many people say, is marriage very complicated, full of problems, etc etc? Now I'm care free, I do what ever I want and go where ever I want to go. I can be lazy and sleep all day. Will I miss the friday night parties. I'll have to come home early, no parties, no friends, no pool, no playing computer games all day. Is this how it is going to be? Oh o!!


I close my eyes and think.....why the hell did I decide to get married ?!!


Hmm...then I realize, this decision was made by me because I wanted Jas more than anything. I wanted her to be there by my side always. I am happy whenever she is around. She made me happy and I loved her company. I liked her as a friend before and she would still be like my best friend even after marriage, so why should I be scared of not being a bachelor anymore? Before when she was there around me, I didn't feel I lost anything, so why should I feel this way when it comes to marriage? I am not going to lose anything. Marriage is not going to change who we are.


'Marriage' is something that bonds us together. Instead of being scared of committing to get married, we should understand that it is the beginning of a new friendship. A special bond where you share everything that is going to happen for the rest of your life with one person whom you care for the most and who will be there by your side till the very end. We may have some ups and downs, may find some faults and shortcomings in one another, but when the love for your partner is so much greater than these things, nothing else should really matter. As far as partying goes, she anyway loves socializing more than I do. I forever will have a beautiful date to take with me to any party. She would always be there beside me anytime, anywhere.


I have decided to lose my Bachelor's Degree to pursue a more special and challenging course of life.....Marriage. I would encourage my fellow bachelor friends, not to be scared of getting married. It is you who decide whether to make it look scary or exciting.


Cheers!!